How to win any argument with your gf/wife

1.Use reasons with an emotional basis to them

Let's face it, unlike men, women are emotional creatures,They have the capacity to use both sides of their brain for emotional processing. That is a proven scientific fact. Thus, how they feel at any given moment tend to affect their decisions, more so than how these feelings would affect guys. In addition, these feelings tend to becarried forward to a much longer time than necessary. For example, let's say someone bumped into her this morning on her way to work. Believe me, that is enough to ruin her day and she would be pissed off all day long whereas if the same thing were to happen to a guy, he would just brush it off and go on with his day. So, when citing reasons to support your argument, use those that are laden with emotions. For eg. let's say you're late for your anniversary dinner. Don't say that the car won't start and you had to tinker with the engine for a while to get it running again, even though that's the truth. Say something like maybe, you were on your way to the restaurant and you saw a kid horribly crashing his bike on the sidewalk so you had to stop your car and make sure that he was ok. In short, using reasons with emotions connected to them will make her sympathise with you more readily.

2. Use the phrase 'how would you feel if....' followed by whatever the other person has done to you

This is one that's easy to use. If your gf or wife has wronged you and yet, she's adamant that she's right, well, use this method. Let her put herself in your shoes. More often than not, she will admit her mistake. Sure, some women would never admit their mistakes. In that case, nothing will work with them so I suggest just dumping them. There's no point in being with such women, unless of course, you don't really care about your relationship and you're only using her for sex. (I don't do this of course but yeah, there are men who do this. I don't condone it but to each his own.)

3. Guilt trip

This is a classic. I think it's best to explain this with an example. So, you'll probably say something like you know, today I had a really bad day at the office, I was late for the division meeting cos my stomach was acting up and my boss almost fired me. It was truly a really bad day but I kept saying to myself, it's ok, I will get to see Katja (the name of your partner) tonight. I just need to get through this day and it'll all be over. She's gonna make everything alright. Then as soon as I come back home tonight, despite my looking forward to seeing you, we're arguing instead, over some silly thing.

Of course, it goes without saying that all these are done with that sad, puppy-dog look on your face and a slow, disappointed sigh.

As for women, there's basically just 1 sure-fire way. Hold off on sex. Of course, this is assuming that the both of you are already in a sexual relationship. Yep, that's basically it. Your guy will apologise faster than mashed poop coming out from a full-blown dysentery patient. (of course, assuming that the both of you are already in a sexual relationship)